I am NOT the most fashion savvy guy in the world.
Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me -
not for my benefit...
... so that if we go out in public together she will not
feel embarrassed!
If it were up to me, I'd wear sweats and a t-shirt all day,
with some old worn out sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is
pretty silly.
I definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion
style and design. It is like a work of art when I look at a
very well dressed woman, I dig that.
But when a guy is "too stylish" I kinda lose respect for
him.
Don't misinterpret me, a man should present himself like he
means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality,
well-fitting clothes are a basic of being a masculine.
But some guys take this so much.
The case is, the obsession with "peacocking" in the pickup
Community for the past several years.
When I hear this term it makes me cringe.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
If you're not familiar with "peacocking," let me explain.
A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based
"game," relying heavily on superficial techniques, status
games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
I didn't see the value of any of this, and have always gone
in the opposite direction.
Major reason is I saw how pretending to be someone other
than yourself, and it JUST FELT WRONG saying the routines
and joke that the other guys came up with.
The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing
was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel
insecure and they'd think you were cooler than them.
Think of this bullshit layers in the approach to dating.
Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what
makes man a man)
b) hide the fact that you're seeking approval
c) play games with women so that they feel insecure and try
to seek your approval
YUCK
To dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that
women would "notice" you and want to talk to you is a kind
of "peacock,". And "peacock" is one of the main techniques
in approaching women.
Now there's nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a
necklace that has some personal meaning.
But don't do it to make women like you.
I'm sure a lot of you guys have seen the advocates of this
approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this
hare-brained "technique."
I've personally encountered students of other pickup
schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only
nervous, clumsy, misdirected...they looked RETARDED.
So I'd like to set a record when it comes to fashion and
meeting girls.
There are only a handful of things you need to pay
attention to when it comes to your appearance.
After you have handled this stuff, you should place it out
of your mind, and that you shouldn't wait for women to
notice you before TAKING AN ACTION.
Before moving on, I have something to expose.
(Continued in Part 2)
Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me -
not for my benefit...
... so that if we go out in public together she will not
feel embarrassed!
If it were up to me, I'd wear sweats and a t-shirt all day,
with some old worn out sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is
pretty silly.
I definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion
style and design. It is like a work of art when I look at a
very well dressed woman, I dig that.
But when a guy is "too stylish" I kinda lose respect for
him.
Don't misinterpret me, a man should present himself like he
means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality,
well-fitting clothes are a basic of being a masculine.
But some guys take this so much.
The case is, the obsession with "peacocking" in the pickup
Community for the past several years.
When I hear this term it makes me cringe.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
If you're not familiar with "peacocking," let me explain.
A while ago, there was an emergence of routine-based
"game," relying heavily on superficial techniques, status
games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
I didn't see the value of any of this, and have always gone
in the opposite direction.
Major reason is I saw how pretending to be someone other
than yourself, and it JUST FELT WRONG saying the routines
and joke that the other guys came up with.
The PRIMARY FOCUS of all these strategy and game-playing
was to visibly get approval from women, but making them feel
insecure and they'd think you were cooler than them.
Think of this bullshit layers in the approach to dating.
Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what
makes man a man)
b) hide the fact that you're seeking approval
c) play games with women so that they feel insecure and try
to seek your approval
YUCK
To dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that
women would "notice" you and want to talk to you is a kind
of "peacock,". And "peacock" is one of the main techniques
in approaching women.
Now there's nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a
necklace that has some personal meaning.
But don't do it to make women like you.
I'm sure a lot of you guys have seen the advocates of this
approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this
hare-brained "technique."
I've personally encountered students of other pickup
schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only
nervous, clumsy, misdirected...they looked RETARDED.
So I'd like to set a record when it comes to fashion and
meeting girls.
There are only a handful of things you need to pay
attention to when it comes to your appearance.
After you have handled this stuff, you should place it out
of your mind, and that you shouldn't wait for women to
notice you before TAKING AN ACTION.
Before moving on, I have something to expose.
(Continued in Part 2)
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