Tips on How to Seduce Women

Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you're not even closer to your goal?

If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.

I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.

Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

At first, you have to keep the conversation moving, you have to escalate physically, you have to get her number and you have to have a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to set a date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.

(Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.")

It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not "extroverted" by nature.

... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

What I do is to have a sit and rest!

Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).

I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you do understand any of this stuff, then probably you are working too hard in  your interaction with women.

 

There are three reasons for this.

The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.

I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn't have upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.

And then I reached a tipping point of sorts, where the muscle was developed enough that I could handle big amounts of weight without all the soreness and fatigue. Your mind is the same way.

Developing your new neuro-pathways will take time. So with the level of your skills, you need to push yourself harder from day-to-day.

Another reason you may feel social fatigue is because you think there's too much to do or learn when meeting women.

This is actually a little different from "fatigue." It's more like feeling overwhelmed.

When you feel overwhelmed by something, it can frazzle your mind, and lead to a sort of depression, or discouragement, which may feel like exhaustion if you're not deeply aware. It's like your body is saying "ugh, it's too much work. I give up before I can even begin."

This will hinder you from doing any progress. I was in this situation when I was putting a lot of theories on my notes. And as I looked at them I've seen that I am just like looking for a huge and complex physics equation.

Doing ALL of this stuff just to had a quality women in my life was so discouraging to think.

Lastly, you will feel socially exhausted for your dating and mating game, when you spend a lot of effort and focus on stuff in wrong situation and find out it was not helpful to your pick-up.

I'd say 99 percent of guys get it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can't tell, because most guys learn to hide their inner "stuff" after a few harsh rejections.

But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.

Think about the messages we get from the media, our parents and friends, and women - it's the man's role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN "getting in bed" from her.

Ridiculous!

I see some advertisement of a guy bungling around to a cute girl trying to impress her, and looking like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better because she is woman. - I hate that kind of thing.

So much for that... what I'm trying to imply here is that when it comes to the matter of controlling a date, guys are being screwed.

The matter of attraction for a guy will be change if he will only takes the time to adjust the way his mind works.

You need to OPTIMIZE YOUR MIND and body to function at the highest level when interacting with women, because that's what's truly attractive...

A MAN AT HIS BEST.