There are men that sometimes the first thing they do when they meet a woman is to show her that they understand GAME.
They'll start to talk about alpha males, how women always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know women are more intimate than men etc.
Starting now, I will refer to this nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me tell you why, and also I'll give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead.
As what I have learned in pick-up this kind of things will make your conversation topics with women very poor. Especially hot ones.
It might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but to the woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to, there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you do happen to meet a woman that likes this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION strategy for most of the female population)
1. It puts her on the defensive. It's like one country exposing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which is aside from turn off, it also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, a woman's awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my "Stepped Awareness" newsletters.
Have you ever tried played a song you liked for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who keeps busy thinking about new shoes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to women in the club" is just too alien and weird for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that DO get this stuff; what you're talking may seems like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women, capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating also get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So here's what you should do.
Well – these are the most powerful techniques I use:
First, you understand society's programming, then understand a woman's specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
And also keep your knowledge of realityto yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
They'll start to talk about alpha males, how women always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know women are more intimate than men etc.
Starting now, I will refer to this nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me tell you why, and also I'll give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead.
As what I have learned in pick-up this kind of things will make your conversation topics with women very poor. Especially hot ones.
It might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but to the woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to, there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you do happen to meet a woman that likes this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION strategy for most of the female population)
1. It puts her on the defensive. It's like one country exposing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which is aside from turn off, it also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, a woman's awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my "Stepped Awareness" newsletters.
Have you ever tried played a song you liked for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who keeps busy thinking about new shoes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to women in the club" is just too alien and weird for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that DO get this stuff; what you're talking may seems like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women, capable of open relationships, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating also get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So here's what you should do.
Well – these are the most powerful techniques I use:
First, you understand society's programming, then understand a woman's specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
And also keep your knowledge of realityto yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
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