There are men that will never be successful with girl.
"What?!"
You might say I've lost my mind, but it's true.
A lot of them just won't get it.
And it's not because they're not intelligent enough or somehow defective...
In fact, it's a subconscious choice, that they have committed unknowingly.
I know what you're thinking. - How can you make sure that you will not one of those guys? - right?
Well don't worry, I'm here to tell you how. The thing the I will say might probably never be hear in other gurus because it's such a very subtle but very powerful fix that most leave it out of the equation.
Let me tell you about Matt. Matt's a good guy, likes socialize. He has taken a bootcamp with another one of the pickup companies. But Matt still doesn't get the success he really wants; in fact he's not successful at all.
"Vin, why don't you help him!?"
There are a couple reasons why I didn't help Matt out. One being he's too set in his ways and is stubborn.
But, that's not the real reason. If he was only stubborn I'd have an easy time changing his mind about certain things.
The real reason why I can't help him is the same reason why he isn't successful with girls.
As I said Matt's a good guy, but every time I talk to him I get the feeling like he wants something from me. In fact a lot of our mutual friends have said the same thing to me about him.
Me and my friends don't like hanging with and neither do women.
Matt always give this vibe of having an ulterior intentions. He approach to you like a friend, which is great, but he naturally gives off a vibe that says to me that he's trying to take knowledge, power and fun from me.
The same thing happens when he's talking with girls. He treats them in a friendly manner and is funny but always gives off a vibe that on another level he has an underlying intention.
Having intentions with women isn't a bad thing. If you express your sensual intentions openly it will be acceptable to them, especially if you have great game. It may even switch them on. In fact it will skyrocket your conversion rate if you do it the right way.
But if you hide your intentions and you come off as creepy and weird. Women won't trust you or feel safe being alone with you. You could be the best actor in the world but... THEY WILL KNOW.
Being creepy is the "Death" card in the Tarot deck of your love life. It will destroy any chance of success you might have.
So now you know what might be going wrong. Lets go fix it?
Well to start off you need to begin being fun and unattached to the outcome whenever you can. It's not about giving back money. It could be anything from telling a great story or being a great host to a bunch of your friends. It could also be a compliment (in the right way) or a tease that will spike emotions in way that is fun to a girl.
Be out there and start talking with women not only because you want to pickup, but because women are amazing, fun, interesting and wonderful.
Next thing you need to do is to start being clear about your intentions. This doesn't mean you directly tell the girl "The whole purpose of me talking to you is so that I can get into your pants." That's a sure way to kill your game about as fast as being creepy.
And there are small subtle changes you can make in your behavior that will affect how your intentions are perceived and if you're congruent with what you're saying. There are so many small fixes that I could write a novel on them.
But do you want to read a novel about fixing your creepy vibe and then taking the months to implement it that it will require? I don't think so. And I wouldn't want to spend the months writing that novel either.
"What?!"
You might say I've lost my mind, but it's true.
A lot of them just won't get it.
And it's not because they're not intelligent enough or somehow defective...
In fact, it's a subconscious choice, that they have committed unknowingly.
I know what you're thinking. - How can you make sure that you will not one of those guys? - right?
Well don't worry, I'm here to tell you how. The thing the I will say might probably never be hear in other gurus because it's such a very subtle but very powerful fix that most leave it out of the equation.
Let me tell you about Matt. Matt's a good guy, likes socialize. He has taken a bootcamp with another one of the pickup companies. But Matt still doesn't get the success he really wants; in fact he's not successful at all.
"Vin, why don't you help him!?"
There are a couple reasons why I didn't help Matt out. One being he's too set in his ways and is stubborn.
But, that's not the real reason. If he was only stubborn I'd have an easy time changing his mind about certain things.
The real reason why I can't help him is the same reason why he isn't successful with girls.
As I said Matt's a good guy, but every time I talk to him I get the feeling like he wants something from me. In fact a lot of our mutual friends have said the same thing to me about him.
Me and my friends don't like hanging with and neither do women.
Matt always give this vibe of having an ulterior intentions. He approach to you like a friend, which is great, but he naturally gives off a vibe that says to me that he's trying to take knowledge, power and fun from me.
The same thing happens when he's talking with girls. He treats them in a friendly manner and is funny but always gives off a vibe that on another level he has an underlying intention.
Having intentions with women isn't a bad thing. If you express your sensual intentions openly it will be acceptable to them, especially if you have great game. It may even switch them on. In fact it will skyrocket your conversion rate if you do it the right way.
But if you hide your intentions and you come off as creepy and weird. Women won't trust you or feel safe being alone with you. You could be the best actor in the world but... THEY WILL KNOW.
Being creepy is the "Death" card in the Tarot deck of your love life. It will destroy any chance of success you might have.
So now you know what might be going wrong. Lets go fix it?
Well to start off you need to begin being fun and unattached to the outcome whenever you can. It's not about giving back money. It could be anything from telling a great story or being a great host to a bunch of your friends. It could also be a compliment (in the right way) or a tease that will spike emotions in way that is fun to a girl.
Be out there and start talking with women not only because you want to pickup, but because women are amazing, fun, interesting and wonderful.
Next thing you need to do is to start being clear about your intentions. This doesn't mean you directly tell the girl "The whole purpose of me talking to you is so that I can get into your pants." That's a sure way to kill your game about as fast as being creepy.
And there are small subtle changes you can make in your behavior that will affect how your intentions are perceived and if you're congruent with what you're saying. There are so many small fixes that I could write a novel on them.
But do you want to read a novel about fixing your creepy vibe and then taking the months to implement it that it will require? I don't think so. And I wouldn't want to spend the months writing that novel either.
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